Listening Music is played during Dinner/Cocktail Hour, Entertainment/Dance is supposed to evoke a response including tapping their toes, fingers etc. It is when they are dancing that the momentum and transitions should be fluid. I will not help you to thurn this one into a 10 page debate as (According to what you have posted before about your style) you appear to be a "Just Push Play" type.So that is your entire job -- to make people dance...?
Did you ever consider that some folks enjoy LISTENING to music. I think what yer doing here, is defining what result YOU want, and not necessarily what your audience wants. Have you ever given a thought to many folks, who might want to sit at their table or the bar, and tap their fingers or toes...?
I'm guessing that wouldn't give you a woody, but they might be happy...