Why Do Couples Ask About Price First.

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I have a $3k mitzvah this Saturday. Makes me feel like a cheap hooker.

Well, yes, but :) .... I went to a Bahtmitzvah for my dentist's daughter about 15 years ago. It was a Titanic theme (movie had just come out). Mini replica and everything. My wife helped his wife a bit on some details .. I know he spent $14K+ on that (giveaways, entertaintment, etc.) The Entertainment company (forget who did it) provided music, lighting, many of the giveaways, and the "stage sets".
 
I have a $3k mitzvah this Saturday. Makes me feel like a cheap hooker.
Ok that's great and I thank you for that post. Now not trying to be funny or bust your chops but what are they getting for 3k? Please don't feel insulted for me asking this question. I don't mean it that way at all.

Let say what I mean by asking this question. Does that mean you're providing lights, uplighting, video or a slide show? What does that price include?
 
Make up your mind. Is it that you can tell how good a DJ is based on price or do they have to qualify? You mentioned a DJ that would charge $450.00 to do a Bar Mitzvah won't know how to properly handle such an event. That DJ just might be a better choice then a DJ charging more. Once again it's all about knowing how to sell your services to get a client to pay top dollar for your services. How much ever that is.

Good grief. It is you that needs to make up your mind - ARE PEOPLE STUPID or NOT?

My theory is that they are not - and the moment you answer the phone your greeting and subsequent dialogue has already conveyed a relatively accurate sense of who you are. and what you are capable of.

Now how many people do you know that will pay $5,800.00 to have a DJ do such an event? Just don't get carried away with your suggestions.

Roughly 800 annually in the Boston area alone.
 
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Good grief. It is you that needs to make up your mind - ARE PEOPLE STUPID or NOT?

My theory is that they are not - and the moment you answer the phone your greeting and subsequent dialogue has already conveyed a relatively accurate sense of who you are. and what you are capable of.



Roughly 800 annually in the Boston area alone.
You're jumping from a person asking about a price to talking to someone on the phone. Most people looking to book a DJ have never done so and don't know what to really look for. So they don't know what questions to ask but basic ones. Such as how much do you charge, do you have a cordless mic and what type of music do you play. After that about all they know to ask is if you have clean music to play at their event? Nothing about the equipment to be used at their event. Not that they would know the difference between low grade gear, mid grade and high end grade gear.

So most are not sure what to expect when looking to book a DJ. The thing is for them to ask the right questions besides the ones I just mentioned. By answering their questions it's up to you to sell yourself with the answers you give. Then it's up to them to make a decision if they want to book you or not.

Now sometimes no matter how well you can convey to them that you know your stuff it will still come down to the price you are planning to charge them to do their event. Some are only concerned in the price period. Some are just stuck on how much they are planning to spend to book a DJ and will not budge from that price no matter how great your presentation is.
 
You know, in my 15+ years of being a DJ, I have never had a client or lead ask me if I had a cordless mic. Go figure.:-/
I have on a rare occasion. Not often but when that question does come up it's normally a bride looking for a DJ to do their wedding.
 
. Most people looking to book a DJ have never done so and don't know what to really look for. So they don't know what questions to ask but basic ones.

That's a false assumption on your part not born out by other people's experience.

So most are not sure what to expect when looking to book a DJ.

Also false. I think what is really going on, is that you don't know what to expect from a customer - and are mistakenly blaming them for the lack of productive dialogue.

Now sometimes no matter how well you can convey to them that you know your stuff it will still come down to the price you are planning to charge them to do their event.

If the dialogue is productive enough to prove your price unattractive - then yes, most people will decline.
 
That's a false assumption on your part not born out by other people's experience.



Also false. I think what is really going on, is that you don't know what to expect from a customer - and are mistakenly blaming them for the lack of productive dialogue.



If the dialogue is productive enough to prove your price unattractive - then yes, most people will decline.
I see you still don't get it. Most people just see a DJ as someone who will show up and just play music. For some that is true but for me that's not the case. It's too bad a lot of us get judged on what a potential client has seen from another DJ while at an event. What they might have seen is a poor excuse for a DJ and think to themselves all DJ's are the same. That's when you really need to be sharp with you selling yourself and how you're not just another DJ out there and much more then that.

Like I said and I will never change my mind is that there are just those potential clients out there that are set on a price and won't spend any more then that. Now that's not to say you can't get some of them to spend more. It's all in how you approach them and how much you can get them to have an open mind. In other words why should they spend more then what they had planned on spending to book you to be their DJ at their event? That goes back to being able to show them you're an above average DJ that will just show up with some gear and play music.
 
I see you still don't get it. Most people just see a DJ as someone who will show up and just play music.

Most people? Where are they all? Did you survey everyone? I have yet to meet anyone with such a lame expectation of a DJ.

Like I said and I will never change my mind..

Your mind is the only real parachute you have in life - maybe you should open yours and try a better way of landing.
 
Alan said it best. Most don't know what else to ask. My question is how do you get them away from thinking about price first and getting them to talk more about the event they are having and how you can help if you can?
 
anyone got the popcorn again ?