I have a $3k mitzvah this Saturday. Makes me feel like a cheap hooker.
Well, yes, but .... I went to a Bahtmitzvah for my dentist's daughter about 15 years ago. It was a Titanic theme (movie had just come out). Mini replica and everything. My wife helped his wife a bit on some details .. I know he spent $14K+ on that (giveaways, entertaintment, etc.) The Entertainment company (forget who did it) provided music, lighting, many of the giveaways, and the "stage sets".