tip to having a friend do the wedding planner rather than a professional or listening to a DJ, everything gets backed up,, Sat nite a friend of the brides was "director" she promptly told me she had never done it, ok so I try to help , ok we make the intros and get thru it fine, we do the dance a little later, ok heres where i tried to use what knowledge I had consumed over the last 30 years, once they got their plates I told them after they had finished eating we should cut the cake, she said she wanted to wait, then wannabe planner says they want to cut cake, i make announcement as to such, start playing Frank's Love & marriage, they go nowhere near the cake, groom comes over after a song or so, and says can we pick it up a tad , like Electric Slide, still no cake, planner,bride,groom were never on same page,, point being said a pro planner or even me the DJ, should have stressed the cake needs to be cut at XX time now, garter XX time ,, ok on to next gig,,