I heard they canceled Mother / Son & Father / Daughter dances up in New England because there was a daughter that did not have a dad to go with. It wasn't 'fair' to her .. but somehow this is fair to those that do and want to go?
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I heard they canceled Mother / Son & Father / Daughter dances up in New England because there was a daughter that did not have a dad to go with. It wasn't 'fair' to her .. but somehow this is fair to those that do and want to go?
Fixed. I have 10 counts less.... It's heart breaking
I am just posting to get my post count up some more
(Ok, seriously, one day I think I might to venture into doing videos)
(Ok, seriously, one day I think I might to venture into doing videos)
Growing...
GJ
(Sorry Dennis, could NOT resist. It was like, stronger than the allure of Dr. Pepper, Pringles, and Farah Fawcett when I was in 8th Grade combined).
GJ
(Sorry Dennis, could NOT resist. It was like, stronger than the allure of Dr. Pepper, Pringles, and Farah Fawcett when I was in 8th Grade combined).
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DjDennis
RIP- My Dad (2011), Sister (2013) and Mum (2017)
The transgender parent dances are still on.
Regarding the topic of this old thread, I would not recommend or sell music video to a wedding client because it is a horrible thing to do to people who may not be experienced enough with entertaining to know what that does to such an important occasion and moment in their lives.
I'm not going to argue the explicit content angle because we all understand that intuitively. The content is disgraceful. Instead, I'm suggesting that any self-respecting professional would dissuade the couple from doing anything that detracts and upstages the couple themselves. Music videos at the event are for that reason alone disqualified from my sales to that event type.
Any video I do at a wedding is strictly related to the couple, family or some other aspect of who and what we are celebrating,
Perhaps if either of both the bride and groom were well known for having been a dancer in well known pop music videos - then maybe I would include those in the dance program, but that's about the only exception I can conceive of for a wedding.
I'm not going to argue the explicit content angle because we all understand that intuitively. The content is disgraceful. Instead, I'm suggesting that any self-respecting professional would dissuade the couple from doing anything that detracts and upstages the couple themselves. Music videos at the event are for that reason alone disqualified from my sales to that event type.
Any video I do at a wedding is strictly related to the couple, family or some other aspect of who and what we are celebrating,
Perhaps if either of both the bride and groom were well known for having been a dancer in well known pop music videos - then maybe I would include those in the dance program, but that's about the only exception I can conceive of for a wedding.
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There you go thinking about and having standards and behaving in a responisble manner...you do realize that sort of ehtics will not help you get to hell, right?
The ceremony is ALL ABOUT THE COUPLE, the reception is A PARTY for all. There is nothing that says music videos are bad at a PARTY. Taste, unfortunately, is subjective.
...but vulgarity, masoginy & soft core porn are obvious...and a wedding reception is neither the time nor place.
Then you have a fundamental misunderstanding of the role of the wedding reception. The ceremony is about the couple, the reception is about FAMILY and community. Music video is antithetical to all three.