Why are so many DJs afraid to talk to people

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I think the important question to consider is: do you communicate in the context of a broader market reality or is your reality defined by your preferred choice of communication?

If someone is an active Facebook user, and works at finding customers on that channel - then for example; is Facebook video chat really an emerging trend or simply a reflection of their personal preference? (Law of attraction, so to speak.)