Actually, I was molded by seeing what NOT to be.
About 20 years ago, me and my current spouse were getting invited to a lot of weddings, and at all of them.....the DJ was usually rude, obnoxious, or fat (or a combination of all three)....the final straw came in the "Stripper" incident (bride embarrassed by garter music)....the groom at that wedding knew I had a taste for music, a large collection of CDs (350 as of 1986), and a more tactful demeanor. He implored me to become a DJ, actually providing me with a name & a pair of nearly-new Klipsch Heresys(original heavy oak cabs made in Hope, Arkansas) ....below cost ($400 for the pair).
Bottom line, I was molded by BAD DJs, with the inherent knowledge that I can do a better job.
Little did I know: YOU MUST BE AN EMCEE because nobody just wants someone to "push play."
that is why I absorbed a LOT of good advice & training from Mr Mike Love (not the Beach Boy), a Sacramento area veteran DJ, someone with radio experience, who was very good at interacting on a microphone with a crowd. Many area DJs thought he was over the top, but he ran the most popular oldies club booth for nearly 10 years. In my early days, I got to sub for him several times whenever he needed a replacement. Like myself, he was 100% Compact Disc (no records).
So it was "crappy DJs" who inspired me....but Mike was far from a crappy DJ...he was rough around the edges, but he really knew the technical side of the business.....contracts, equipment, etc. He was able to make some dough selling the gear to me, but he used to beat PSSL catalog most of the time (between '86 and '90).
This is all ancient history....but I wanna give props to Mike Love for mentoring me, back when.....otherwise, I would never have developed any personality whatsoever....he "inspired" me to figure out how to be an emcee without being perceived as invasive or swarmy.
Mike was somewhat "old school".....he embraced disco and never chucked the polyester shirts and his chain-smoking habits. I remember when my wife Lorena hired him for my 40th birthday party in 1994, he offered to do it for free! I've never forgotten that...... (although he did get into an argument with my brother about smoking at the event, although this was long before smoking indoors was prohibited). Seeing someone who's mildly abrasive in action, you can develop your own style and avoid the potential pitfalls in your own events.
After moving north to Sequim, Washington for a few years, Mike is now a collie-kennel operator in southern Cali. He gets free room & board in exchange for 20 hours a week caring for the doggies.....he also "voice tracks" a Country radio station in West Virginia somewhere, using remote equipment, and they pay him 3k a month. I guess he hasn't done a "Mobile" in several years....