I love the way the 4Bar sets up, but like most everything Chauvet sells, it feels flimsy to me. So I am looking for something similar, but maybe better built... does such a beast exist?
I too have a 4bar and its my go-to for smaller gigs. The stand is lightweight and does feel cheap but its held up well for me for a year and a half. I mounted an H20 and Revo4 beneath it once without an issue but wont do it again.
Have you looked at this from ADJ...it looks similar http://www.sweetwater.com/store/detail/MegaParPFSys/
See, that stand looks sturdier. I first saw the 4Bar at the Vegas show a few years back, and I specifically remember thinking, the stand was pretty darn crappy... Couldn't really evaluate the lights because the show floor was too bright. Then this past spring, I did a sweet 16 where the girls father brought a 4Bar and I saw it in action. It was pretty good, but even the guy who brought it said the light stand felt too light.... But he didn't care, he bought it for the party with the intention of returning after the party.
You can't really nitpick about a stand that's included with the fixture - I'd be surprised if anyone bought a 4Bar specifically because the stand was included with it.
With that said, Cheaplights/StageApe has a variation on the 4Bar - the advantage is that it folds in half, which makes it ideal for transport. Check it out.