I'm sure that sucked, but it's a good cautionary tale for future couples that want ALL the control. I've never had someone be quite that specific - but that is always the risk. I can do what you want, but if you get it wrong, you just paid a professional to avoidably ruin your event.
I know it's not all about ME...but it's at least HALF about me.
I have reached the age that I would rather PASS on these kinds of events.
(when you see them coming)
It DOES have to do with your professional reputation, too.
Not that I CAN'T sit there and be the jukebox...
it's just that like an actor, choosing the wrong role can affect how many jobs you are offered in the future.