Event Pacing - The key to the "Magic" (blog)

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I respectfully disagree. I believe it does affect how you respond.

How do you suppose proposing character flaws rather than speaking to the topic might affect his response?

My ADVICE is to you, is to figure out the difference between advice and advise.
C'mon, maybe we can make this 50 pages... ;)

LOL. My advice to Canute is - wake up! "Setting the record straight" is a goal you will not, and can not achieve here.

You've already cited the tactics:
...pose a question and provide the preferred answer
...pose a question and when you don't get the preferred answer call the person a liar.
...provide testimony about a person and offer as "fact" something never witnessed and for which there is no basis or evidence
...deny common sense reality and replace it with no-win or preferred outcome scenarios
...rephrase a post in order to change or redefine the reality of what the original post said
...retaliate with a supposed character flaw in the person rather than address the topic
...accuse people of attacking you instead of addressing the topic

Now learn to ignore the dysfunction.
 
Yep but I keep getting accused of doing or not doing things which are not true so I have to set the record straight. Take a look at the last accusation in post # 398 from Wes, Quote:"Canute, do you meet with your clients before the wedding to plan the music and itenerary? Every 'pro' I know does - except you." Now you tell me, am I supposed to let that go unanswered when it is a complete fabricated lie?

Like everyone else here, you are free to have and participate in any discussion at any time. That's not my rule - that is ODJT policy. As stated before, the very second you introduce disrespect, it is no longer a discussion and now a conflict. Additional negativity just pushes it that much further into conflict. Over these 22 pages, I think you have put down and offended everyone except Bob.

With Danno back at the helm and trying to right the ship, I bet it will get interesting for some on here.
 
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How do you suppose proposing character flaws rather than speaking to the topic might affect his response?

My experience has been that it all depends on how you say something. Very few times does the point get someone angry. It's the rude way someone says it.

Also, I believe everyone has character flaws. Some are better at recognizing them and controlling them/hiding them. Others are completely oblivious to their character flaws and display them like a shiny new suit for all to see
 
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My advice to Canute is - wake up! "Setting the record straight" is a goal you will not, and can not achieve here.

You've already cited the tactics:
...pose a question and provide the preferred answer
...pose a question and when you don't get the preferred answer call the person a liar.
...provide testimony about a person and offer as "fact" something never witnessed and for which there is no basis or evidence
...deny common sense reality and replace it with no-win or preferred outcome scenarios
...rephrase a post in order to change or redefine the reality of what the original post said
...retaliate with a supposed character flaw in the person rather than address the topic
...accuse people of attacking you instead of addressing the topic

Now learn to ignore the dysfunction.

These 'tactics', as you have called them, applies to everyone here, including Canute. To add, there was no dysfunction here until disrespect entered the picture. I wonder who brought that. If your advice is to create dysfunction and then ignore all the responses, he hit that one right on target.
 
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ahoustondj's name is Canute. It's also a city in OK.

and apparently a King of Denmark, Norway, England and parts of Sweden. Also listed a Cnut.
 
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He was on this morning.
 
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The Answer to the Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything ... is 42.
 
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The Answer to the Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything ... is 42.

If you are a numerologist, you would add all the numbers together, than divide by the number of numerals.

That would make the magic number 3.

So, play 3 on your lottery ticket tonight :)