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I'm RURAL here...you don't get no spotify where there wedding is, or most weddings here, or probably 1/2 the country, even in the towns.
With Spotify Premium (paid) you can offline sync 1000s of songs, so you can build a playlist, or take another's and download them for playing without an internet connection.
 
I don't believe i EVER said i don't have 80/90 country...did I?
The want 90 minutes of country love songs...hence buying a CD. I MIGHT have had the songs...I know I don't have every country song ever recorded.
You did say:
This saturdays' wedding she wants dinner hour to be country love songs (it's ONLY country music the whole night unless I get a request). And while she's in her late 20s, she wants 80s/90s country.

OK, so I don't quite have enouhg, but hey, someone must have made a country love song cd/collection, right? Yep..amazon has it, 75 songs for $12, free shipping - BUT ONLY ON CD! Argh. Ripping it now.
If you don't have enough .. then why wouldn't we assume you were going to use these discs? The problem .. nothing on that 75 song set is from the 80's or 90's. If you have intentions of using the 100 song set, very little of that is from the 80's or 90's - and of what is, not many are big hits.

I did a school dance 2 weeks ago - had to get about 30 songs for it...should I have turned that down because I had to get those 30 songs? Ridiculous.
Well no .. but would you have bought a CD set from the 70's for it?

All I said was a great way to start/fill out a library, cheaply, is to buy CD collections for pennies on the original dollar.
I believe most of us agree on this.

I'm RURAL here...you don't get no spotify where there wedding is, or most weddings here, or probably 1/2 the country, even in the towns.
I think you'll find several agree with this as well.
 
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WTF?

You might as well say never take another event because you may not have a song they want...
I never stated nor intimated that.

What I posted, was:
Why would you accept or seek to get paid for a service that you, self-admittedly, are unprepared and, at best, ill equipped to perform successfully?
...
You and, more importantly, your client and audience would be much better served if you teamed up with a DJ that has the relevant experience and legit country library to help you deliver in a professional manner.
Did you not read the last sentence?

Where does that say "never take another event because you may not have a song they want."? (I'll give you hint, it doesn't say that.)

All I said was a great way to start/fill out a library, cheaply, is to buy CD collections for pennies on the original dollar.
Again, that is not all that you said.

You also said,
This saturdays' wedding she wants dinner hour to be country love songs (it's ONLY country music the whole night unless I get a request).

And while she's in her late 20s, she wants 80s/90s country.

OK, so I don't quite have enouhg...
That is a statement regarding a specific event , about which that you are clearly and appropriately concerned, and not about buying cheap CD collections, that rarely meet expectations, to deliver on promises to clients.

Regardless, I hope that your purchase was fortuitous...for your client's sake.
 
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I'm RURAL here...you don't get no spotify where there wedding is, or most weddings here, or probably 1/2 the country, even in the towns.

I have al my music in separate folders by genre. And I have five genres of country ballads - country ballads 50s - 80's, country ballads 90's, country ballads 2000's, country ballads 2010s and country ballads 2020s.

Told y'all I was a tad OCD. Is there any way I can help here?
 
I never stated nor intimated that.

What I posted, was:

Did you not read the last sentence?

Where does that say "never take another event because you may not have a song they want."? (I'll give you hint, it doesn't say that.)

you said don't take an event you're not prepared for.

That says (to me) do not any new kind of event, because you imply it's not possible to prepare for something new.
 
I have many many folders to group songs by decade, genre, use, etc.
I haven't really bothered to separate most of the country stuff - there's slow songs, a few dance songs, the same 10 get requested over and over pretty much, and few school dances or weddings want any country at all.

I spent time at the wedding during dinner and cocktails to separate a lot of the country songs, and will continue to work on it by decade next. Lots of googling on that one as most compilation disks don't rip with the right year.

I have al my music in separate folders by genre. And I have five genres of country ballads - country ballads 50s - 80's, country ballads 90's, country ballads 2000's, country ballads 2010s and country ballads 2020s.

Told y'all I was a tad OCD. Is there any way I can help here?
 
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That says (to me) do not any new kind of event, because you imply it's not possible to prepare for something new.
Then you don't understand simple English or you're too sensitive to appreciate advice to seek assistance.

WHAT I POSTED/WROTE/SAID WAS,
Why would you accept or seek to get paid for a service that you, self-admittedly, are unprepared and, at best, ill equipped to perform successfully?

You and, more importantly, your client and audience would be much better served if you teamed up with a DJ that has the relevant experience and legit country library to help you deliver in a professional manner.
You have to read all words in context and not on hyper-offend-ability alert.

Taken in context, I was clearly and directly suggesting that you seek the assistance of a trusted and reliable fellow performer that has relevant experience and legit country library.

No where in that suggestion is the alleged "do not any new kind of event, because you imply it's not possible to prepare for something new."

What I suspect, and I could be misinterpreting your reactions, is that you are taking offense to the implication that you are selfishly willing to risk your client's satisfaction and event success because you can't/won't appreciate the reality that none of us can know all and it is often better to seek education and assistance from those with better/more experience.

you said don't take an event you're not prepared for.
I did not say that but, as a practice, I do not accept events for which I am knowingly un or ill prepared.

In the past, I have been persuaded to take jobs outside my comfort zone and experience level but only did so by informing the client that I would be partnering with or assisted by someone with the necessary experience, knowledge and capacities that I lacked. (Examples provided upon request.)

I don't consider that a weakness. I find it to the most intelligent and mutually beneficial course I could take.

But, youdoyoubooboo!
 
No, you said it's not advisable to seek or take business that you're not prepared for.

So that means you cannot take any new business ... only what you're taken in teh past. Never done a school dance? sweet 16? can't do them...not prepared so can't take the gig.

Really?

I take gigs I'm not 'prepared for', by your definition, all the time.

First bar gig...first car cruise...are two examples.

Did a quinceneara last year. They are SOOOO rare here there would be no DJ to team up with.

And school dances, ANY teen event (sweet 16, b'day, grad party, etc) requires one to learn all kinds of new music. And it's a real challenge as what plays well on the west side of town may flop on the east side - yet they're still both HS's withing 10 miles of eachother.

I do turn down some events - christian music being one - don't know a darned thing about it.

I''m learning latin music - the quince I did, a cuban wedding, a puerto rican wedding - different music for sure. other than prince royce, the flo rida of the latin world apparently.

Then you don't understand simple English or you're too sensitive to appreciate advice to seek assistance.

WHAT I POSTED/WROTE/SAID WAS,

You have to read all words in context and not on hyper-offend-ability alert.

Taken in context, I was clearly and directly suggesting that you seek the assistance of a trusted and reliable fellow performer that has relevant experience and legit country library.

No where in that suggestion is the alleged "do not any new kind of event, because you imply it's not possible to prepare for something new."

What I suspect, and I could be misinterpreting your reactions, is that you are taking offense to the implication that you are selfishly willing to risk your client's satisfaction and event success because you can't/won't appreciate the reality that none of us can know all and it is often better to seek education and assistance from those with better/more experience.


I did not say that but, as a practice, I do not accept events for which I am knowingly un or ill prepared.

In the past, I have been persuaded to take jobs outside my comfort zone and experience level but only did so by informing the client that I would be partnering with or assisted by someone with the necessary experience, knowledge and capacities that I lacked. (Examples provided upon request.)

I don't consider that a weakness. I find it to the most intelligent and mutually beneficial course I could take.

But, youdoyoubooboo!
 
No, you said it's not advisable to seek or take business that you're not prepared for.
...and you wish to take a position in opposition to that?

In that case, I rescind any implication and emphatically state that you are clearly willing to selfishly risk your clients' satisfaction and event success...for whatever selfish reasons you have.

I hope the electrician(s) you might need to hire aren't so cavalier or irresponsible.

So that means you cannot take any new business ... only what you're taken in the past. Never done a school dance? sweet 16? can't do them...not prepared so can't take the gig.

Really?

I take gigs I'm not 'prepared for', by your definition, all the time.
Your act of incorrectly restating clear statements in order to debate is folly. If your so incapable, or as I suspect unwilling, to participate in adult discussions, I'll say and waste my time, no more.
 
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Would I take a gig for this weekend that I have no clue about? No likely.
A wedding 6 months from now that wants greek music? I could do that, no problem.

You're assuming, again, that I can't prepare or learn how to do something I've never done before. Perhaps you're projecting?

...and you wish to take a position in opposition to that?

In that case, I rescind any implication and emphatically state that you are clearly willing to selfishly risk your clients' satisfaction and event success...for whatever selfish reasons you have.

I hope the electrician(s) you might need to hire aren't so cavalier or irresponsible.


Your act of incorrectly restating clear statement in order to debate is folly. If your so incapable, or as I suspect unwilling, to participate in adult discussions, I'll say and waste my time, no more.
 
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