Some people say..."Save your money for retirement...Don't buy stuff you don't NEED". ...I find that way easier said than done.
Then I think about it, and I go "I only get to live ONCE!" ...Why should I save, save, save for the future when money is worth less in the future anyway? What if I die earlier in life, and I don't get a chance to have fun with the money I did have?
I just accept that I will want to eat out when I want to. I accept my current bills I need to pay, and I realize that I would rather take 1 to 2, or even 3 trips every year where I splurge and spend money, and relax rather than try to save my money.
I could have opted not to go to the DJ Expo, and not spend money on a hotel room, or any money on gambling while up there. But I opted to go on a trip, spend money, and try to have a good time while there. I went to Myrtle Beach in the Spring, and to Hershey Park over the summer. I am glad I spent money on those family trips. The experiences are worth it. Saving money, and sitting at home would be boring, and I only get to live once. I may never save a lot of money, or be any where near a millionaire in life, but I can look back at life and say I tried to have the best time I could with the money I did earn in life. I'm not out to impress anybody with what I have, or how much $$$ I earn. I just want to say I lived a nice life and had enough fun, and good times...and ATE WELL!
I have the mindset that it isn't worth it to work my life away. I only live once, and having a great balance of time and enough money to have good times with is more important. I spoke to a lady at the store who told me she had worked every day last week, and this was her 14th day in a row of working 8 to 14 hour shifts. She looked exhausted, and told me she was exhausted. I thought to myself "I don't care how bad I need money...there is no way I would put myself through that kind of work schedule, and have no time to myself...F that!" ...I personally feel a bit sorry for people who put themselves in that sort of a situation. Don't let life pass you by is what I say. Take it easy, make time for yourself. Eat out, and relax when you can and try to enjoy life...
I worked 2 gigs this past weekend. I was tired yesterday just from working 2 days in a row. I'm glad I had yesterday, and today off, and don't have to report for work somewhere. ...Time to get a hair cut, go eat lunch somewhere, then pick my son up from school to take him to the dentist....then he has swim lesson later today.