The number one job of a hotel/motel is hospitality - which is the whole picture. Odd how that happens.
I agree - however it is delusional to believe that you can get anything at anytime from anywhere - or to believe that a single song can or will create a success out of nothing. By the same token, playing a 'bad' request at a successful event may ruin that event. By broadcasting that you are a media God and can get anything, anytime from anywhere - you're setting yourself up for failure. It's just a matter of when and how.
You need to be prepared for that person that claims you're a sucky DJ could be at any event. You can't please everyone all the time - and to believe you can do so is 100% wrong.
If you're not playing their songs then you're not engaged or responsive. How you managed to formulate that sentence without noticing the glaring contradiction is a wonder.
You're arguing at the level of a 4th grader. Surely you can do better.
I don't believe that. Those are your words, your grandiose fictitious scenario, not mine. Have the decency to take responsibility for the nonsense of your own postulations..
Totally untrue statement. I never mentioned not playing their songs. I was clearly responding to a one off request which would involve streaming.
Takes one to know one. Shall we continue degrading this conversation?
Why not - you are the one that said it. Read your previous posts.
I think you're taking a bit of an extreme view, at least the way I read what you've written. I too, don't see any single song as a "make or break" issue. Even dropping a dud in the middle of a dance set won't do that. I also, in no way consider myself the ultimate source of limitless material, nor do I sell myself as such. I do see it as my duty to try and use every possible means to provide requested material and having streaming available is just another way to try and do just that. Some guys look at hot downloads much the same way and are quick to tell a requester, "I don't have that" but I regularly use amazon, pretty much on every gig. Personally, I just view it as an issue of me putting forth the effort rather than offering an excuse.
Wow, who pissed in your wheaties?
I'm getting the feeling you're not seeing the whole thread. Are you blocking people?
I'm getting the feeling you're not seeing the whole thread. Are you blocking people?
Rick, it might be an extreme view in some instances - because there are those here portraying it in extreme views. My feel from you was that you might use streaming during a certain part of a function where others , like myself, would not. I have no issues with that. I do take issue with those that claim the ability to instantly gratify a persons request made them larger than life.
So Pro, your definition of hospitality includes trying to please one person by having instantaneous access to every track possible (which is still not possible btw) to play on their demand, at the risk of pissing off more than one person if it's played? Sounds like pretzel logic to me!
I really think we're in the same camp as that I prefer to control my own playlist on weddings also. However, when it comes to a 13 year old, birthday party, I fully admit that I'm (somewhat) a fish out of water and often struggle to find good before dance set music. Rather than me making stupid guesses and playing all Disney tracks, in that particular instance, I'll defer to spotify as I actually believe it does a better job than I of picking material. Throw stones if you wish and tell me how deficient of a DJ I am but I believe something is better, I believe it's my duty to use it.
So DJ TJ, how about you speak for yourself instead of trying to speak for and define me?
Q: To what tracks are you referring that I would not have instantaneous access too? Could you please list these and the location which you are calling inaccessible?
Just to indulge you - I thought I would give your hypothesis a test and load a request I got 20 years ago - something I had only ever owned on cassette tape. Surfing with the Alien - Joe Satriani It came up instantaneously - imagine that!
I wasn't throwing stones - I in no way said your less of a DJ. By the same token, when that doesn't work, then what? I also think we're in the same camp. My sole complete push in here was that a person believed that the stream of a one song request made that person obtain a future booking. That same person also believes that you should entertain each and every request, regardless. Hog wash.
Yea, entertaining EVERY request is just as bad as ignoring all requests. I think it's up to us to be the gatekeeper and decide what's stupid and what will work. Likewise, I think it's also quite ego-driven for us to just blow off guest requests. Sometimes they do un-cover hidden gems that I likely would've over-looked.
He wasn't speaking for or defining you - you did that all on your own.
For the record, there are millions of tracks that are inaccessible - and for a large amount of them, you would be accessing illegally. You're a big boy, go look them up on your own. If you have limited or no Wifi, then none of them are accessible.
To quote DJ Barry Scott: "Not all 45's are lost, many were simply discarded."
For the record - you can't be this ignorant of the current workplace standards and expect working DJs to lend merit to what you say.
It's not a coincidence that the same poster's who cop an attitude about clients, requests, hospitality, and their own inability to keep pace with technology - are the same ones complaining that business is bleak. It's cause and affect, people.