Weddings Bride Insists on Explicit Lyrics in Song..

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Scott: Sorry, missed the humor. My bad. Carry on!!

To add to the discussion a tasty tidbit from yesteryear, shock artists have been pushing the liberal limits since cave dweller pictographs. In my era (mid 50 to mid 60s), conservative application of the 1st amendment rights prevented some lyricist's attempts at the shock value of then vulgar words in order to compensate for the lack of musical content. Lyrically, using specifically sex or having sex was a no-no. So they teamed up and agreed to use the word or term charms as the underground direct reference to boffing. Anytime you hear Annette Funicello or the Everly Brothers or Mary Wells or or or use the word charms , yep, he/she/them wants to boff.

In 1969, Proud Mary was originally rolling up the reefer . That didn't fit into the Presidential War on Drugs (maryjane was a class 1 felony) so it was changed to rolling up the river.

Today, it's gotten considerably more street, gutter, locker room, drunken sailor, intolerable to the point that every track seems to need two versions...radio and explicit. If it were socially publicly acceptable to play an explicit version, why the warning? Hmmm, Nifty way to double sales, eh? 1st Amendenment rights or profit? Come on folks, this is America. Cha-ching. Cha-chang Cha-Chinese.
 
Steve,
Is there a song I wouldn't play? yes. I'm sure there is a point out there where I would draw the line.
 
That's comparing apples to oranges. Teaching my children is my job teaching a group of intoxicated adults isn't my job...and playing edits, if it makes you feel better that's great, but it really serves no purpose if the words are known

Should I run out on the floor during Mony Mony and stop the people from yelling out what they yell is that my job too. By the good moral standard that song is fine to play nothing even really suggestive in that song no more than Brown Eyed Girl or BGB

As Scott said it very rarely comes up and when it does I will suggest the edit

Jeff - not everyone at your events is intoxicated.......although in Cape Breton... I may be wrong:sqeek:

Jeff, as an responsible adult businessman, father, moral and ethical person.....
Do you not feel you owe your customers...your fellow man something?
Don't you feel that we (collectively .. as good people) try to set an example of some sorts, so that others will follow....

Where would the world be if we all decided to say "**** the world...I owe it nothing"
 
The OP didn't ask us what songs we wouldn't play. They were asked to play one and asked us WWYD. Asking for specific songs is off track.

Perhaps less off track would be what words would any song track need to contain that would put it on the "No, I won't play it" list.

For me, George Carlin's 7 still hold.

And your observation about forum posted words auto-edits is very true. Great catch!
 
We could all go back to being Quakers. Oh wait then we would have to learn to play the fiddle.
 
Anna - we'll never get that question or line defined......it's simply too subjective.

As I said we've really gone off the rails as it relates to Tim's question...whether you would play a song with the F bomb in it.....

I wouldn't....except if I were in a club.....the same would hold true for the c (rhymes with punt), b *tch, wh*re, and any other of the accepted "profanities"....

If a client wants someone to play that.....he can certainly hire one....I advertise that I play "radio edits"... with the exception of bitch.....I've never heard the others in a radio edit...
 
Just a thought...I'm listening to "Yeah!" by Usher right now. It's a pretty popular tune...is that on the "suggestive" list for you guys? Sorry, I'm still trying to figure out where that line goes.

I wouldn't. But that is just me.

Mike
 
...and you know what really ironic...Here we are debating the merits of playing a song with the f -bomb at a quasi-public event...and we can't even say it in a forum for dj's.....

Dan - not trying to lead by example are you?

This is a good point, why if you put it in a song it is ok? Can you imagine if you hired a DJ and he said some of the things they say in some songs over the mic? quote " I like the way you ***k "or " I get more pussy than a toilet seat" " etc. Have you ever been sitting in a good restaurant celebrating a special occasion and the people at the table next to you are speaking loud and every third word is **** this **** that, :sqeek:does that not take away from your evening out, offend you, make you want to leave or tell the ignorant morons to shut up? :sqmad:
 
Ducky...

Just a thought...I'm listening to "Yeah!" by Usher right now. It's a pretty popular tune...is that on the "suggestive" list for you guys? Sorry, I'm still trying to figure out where that line goes.


Yeah doesn't have fuc& in it..Yes , there is some suggestive language in it...Like most of todays music..

I guess I'll find out at around 11 pm tonight. I have no clue what to expect.

I'm going to do the reception and I'll come to the bridge when it's time..
 
Hope it all works out well for you.
 
Steve,
As I said earlier, I don't advertise it, I don't bring it up, I don't make it an issue until someone does. I have found that the VAST majority of the people that do ask, ask because they want edited version at their wedding.
The small % that would may possibly "want" unedited versions usually don't think to ask or don't even realize that the version i'm playing is edited.

My original point was that IF someone specifically wanted a song that had explicit lyrics in it, I would discuss it with them why I thought it was a bad idea. But if after discussing it with them, they really felt strongly that they needed to have THAT version, more times than not, I'm leaning towards playing that song. Does that mean I must play every song...no matter how vulgar, revolting or obscene it may be? NO But if someone had to have the unedited version of sexyback, I can't imagine why they would...but if they did, I would play it.

I do think that ALL adults have a responsibility to society to do what's right and be an example for children everywhere, not just their own. In my opinion however, a vulgar slang term here or there is lights years different than obscene. Like it or not, those terms are part of the english language. In our society, we always have, and always will have bad language. Music always has and always will stretch society's lines of properness. While I don't like to use foul language, I'd be lying to say I've never used those terms. When me and my friends go camping, f bombs are dropped on occasion.

I can tell you that there would be no such music at a party I was hosting. I would not want to offend any of my guests.
 
Thanks..

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Kidney failure, not eating and not walking...They took him off the cafiter today to see what happens..

Not a good 3 days..